If we want to truly live our life then we have to enjoy it to the fullest. A famous saying by Ann Landers is highly appropriate in this sense and it goes like “Nobody gets to live life backward. Look ahead that is where your future lies”. So stop thinking about the negative things of your past or what made you hurt and start living with a positive attitude.
Do things that you enjoy doing the most and which makes you feel happy like listening to music, watching movie, or any other activity. Pamper yourself; take out some time for yourself from your busy schedule. Look at your routine tasks from new perspectives try something new and do them differently and it will be nice change for you. Play with children, and learn to be joyful like them. Talk to old people as they can give you nice advice owing to their experience so that you can learn from them and avoid the same mistakes. Try to find the things in life that excite you, and then go after them make life one exciting adventure.
Remember, we often live our life too cautiously, worried about what might go wrong. Be bold, risk it. There is a beautiful saying, “Worrying is like rocking – it’s something to do, but you don’t go anywhere…” But that doesn’t mean that you have to hold your sad emotions. Cry when you are hurt, or when somebody you love is hurt. Expression helps in communicating emotions and would help you to redefine life, in a way you always wanted it to be. Follow a positive approach to life!