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The Sun has reported that Prince William and Kate Middleton will invite members of the public to their wedding will hold a Willy Wonka-style ‘Golden Ticket’ draw.

It is believed that around 100 lucky winners will be able to rub shoulders with the royals and heads of states at the historic Westminster Abbey service on April 29.

From in.news.yahoo.com:

And Britain is ready for a nationwide knees-up after being given a holiday on Friday April 29 to celebrate the wedding.

The Royal couple were said to be ‘over the moon – on cloud nine’ after the date and venue of their big day was officially announced. But they are determined ordinary folk should be given the opportunity to celebrate alongside them.

A source close to the St James’ Palace planning committee revealed: ‘William and Kate wanted the British people involved at a deeper level than simply holding street parties. They were crystal clear on this from the outset and were delighted when the idea of a random selection was mooted. Those lucky enough to land an invitation will only find out when it drops on their doormat.’

The exact method of picking which lucky members of the public are to join the Royal shindig has still to be worked out. But it will be completely at random – just like Willy Wonka’s Golden Ticket draw in the British novelist Roald Dahl’s classic ‘Charlie and the Chocolate Factory’.

The lucky winners will also be invited to raise a toast to the future king and his queen at the reception that is expected to be held at the Buckingham Palace.

Infidelity may be considered a taboo by many couples but a prominent French psychologist has suggested that men who keep mistresses improve their marriage.

In her latest book, “Men, Love, Fidelity“, Maryse Vaillant said infidelity is essential to the psychic functioning of certain men who are very much in love and it can also be liberating for women.

From Timesofindia.indiatimes.com:

For all you know, it could improve your marriage. Maryse says that infidelity is not, by definition, proof of love. Agrees engineer Charu Verma*, 29, “We practically spend our lives in office, so naturally, one gets attached to colleagues. And why blame men; women too get into relationships of convenience. I work for 12-15 hours a day, and since I don’t get to see my husband often, we started having a lot of fights. I needed emotional support, and a colleague helped me out. Maybe it’s wrong for some people, but I wouldn’t call it cheating. It took my mind off certain things, and my husband and I are doing fine.”

Chirag Bhalla*, 31, a CA, feels there’s nothing wrong with an extra-marital affair. “Our wives are so career-oriented that they’re willing to work in a different city for a higher position. How are we supposed to control ourselves? And if having an affair helps one lead a normal married life, so be it,” says he.

But there are those who do think it’s unacceptable. “I have to disagree, because it makes a mockery of faithfulness. If a marriage has to be judged by the number of affairs one’s had, why get married at all?” asks 29-year-old HR pro Deborah Steele. Sumanta Mukherjee, 30, thinks “Men are programmed that way and can’t help being womanisers. It’s not true for everyone, though. Infidelity happens and there are ways to reconcile. But if it doesn’t work out, why not try something new?”

In short, you may consider yourself lucky if your husband is enjoying secret meetings with another woman.

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A scan developed by American scientists could sneak a peek inside the brain of a woman while she is enjoying orgasm.

Researchers from the Rutgers University were able to discover that that sexual arousal tends to numb the female nervous system to such an extent that she does not feel as much pain-only pleasure.

From in.news.yahoo.com:

Orgasm affects up to 30 different parts of the brain including those responsible for emotion, touch, joy, satisfaction and memory, found researchers.

The researchers asked eight women to stimulate themselves while lying under a blanket inside a Magnetic Resonance Imaging (MRI) scanner, a tunnel-like machine often used to detect brain tumours.

Most women took less than five minutes to reach an orgasm although some took as long as 20.

During that time, the MRI scanner took images of their brain every two seconds to show which parts became active during the orgasm.

The scientists found that two minutes before the orgasm, the brain’s reward centres become active, the areas usually activated when eating food and drink.

Immediately before they reached the peak, other areas of the brain became affected such as the sensory cortex, which receives ‘touch’ messages from parts of the body and the thalamus, which relays signals to other parts of the body.

Barry Komisaruk of Rutgers University was quoted as saying women tend to have longer orgasms and can experience several in rapid succession.

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If you think that only women have complaints and issues against men, it is time to have a rethink as problems are faced by both the groups.

Most women think that they are cool when they crib or talk negatively, but what they don’t know is the fact that men absolutely hate this habit of theirs.

From Timesofindia.indiatimes.com:

Weight-watcher: ‘Oh can’t have beer, it has 150 calories’, ‘I must hit the gym everyday’ – if these are your favourite catchwords, you have trouble coming your way. There is only so much diet, exercise regimens men can take and if you are too conscious, a man is likely to be exasperated. Women need to know when to give in ‘without throwing their weight around’!

In-law basher: Agreed only the fortunate are blessed with a good set of in-laws. So if you are not one of the lucky ones, will you constantly bash them up verbally? They are somebody’s parents and if you don’t have anything nice to say something about them, don’t say anything. How does that sound?

Worker bee: If you are buzzing nineteen to a dozen only about the presentations you have to make for the boss, deadlines, colleagues, HR head and the office janitor – it’s obvious you have nothing else to talk about. A man may want to know about your interests, your views on him, and more, but you prefer to hide behind ‘work’ all the time. If you want a man, any man actually – get a life first.

Agony aunt: There are some women who constantly feel they are an ‘advisory body’. They feel it is their business to hear out the whines of everyone around them and suggest suitable solutions. They are so deeply involved in this part-time job that they inadvertently sound like they are advising you as well. Nobody wants to date a mom, you know.

If you fall in any of the categories, it is high time that you change your approach to relationships and men so that you both can enjoy mutually satisfying and peaceful lives.